thanks!
[edit] okay, spent some more time pooking around, sry i didn't do so sooner, seems i'm not alone, there is an answer given here:
http://forums.linuxmint.com/viewtopic.php?f=189&t=87320
not sure how to rightly go about it, could someone explain that a little more carefully?
[edit2] couldn't sit still so i dLed the prev version, that i read somewhere here can install to 2 HDDs, and sure enough, works! 'course now updating was (is- i'm still updating) a little rough, at first update manager couldn't do anything because of broken packages, but did the first couple 'o dozen one or two at a time, after i had pared it down to under 1,000 updates its running fine
hope this helps someone

