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I can sort something out with mintUpdate (basically pulling from Debian Testing but only from configurations (as in moments) which you define as stable.. that way you'd be "jumping" from one stable frozen set of updates to another.. guaranteeing that your system is always stable and avoiding updates when Debian Testing itself is broken). Of course this can come as an update to mintupdate, we don't need to focus on this right now.