So, decided to play around a little with gnome 3 - personalize my desktop.
Installed gnome-tweak-tool
Installed the extensions
Then did a little search and found some great themes.
Downloaded the themes and installed them with gnome tweak tool.
The problem is there is an option to change the theme, that changes the launcher and menu bars - but there are no theme options in the "window" section - no options of the theme that was downloaded.
Checked to make sure the themes were in the .theme folder - they are.
http://th08.deviantart.net/fs70/PRE/i/2 ... 3drw1x.jpg
Is what I was shooting for.
But there is no atolm option in "Window Theme"
I am sure I am doing something wrong here.

