After a quick research, this seems to be a port forwarding problem on your router (you do have one, right ?)
There should be some place in kopete's menus where you can see which port it uses for webcam with msn, then check your router config.
Anyway, search "kopete msn webcam" in google and you'll find plenty of pointers.
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