billmc wrote:OK, I'm begining to get a better understanding, but I still believe there is an issue with the, if you'll allow me to use the phrase, "auto mounting stuff".
Here's some things I'd like you to try for me.
Let's start with the computer shut off. Disconect the USB cable leading to the external drive, from the box. Turn the compuetr on. After it boots up, open nemo and open a terminal window along side the nemo window, so that you can see both at the same time. In the terminal widow, enter the mount command -> mount
orbmiser@Winterfell ~ $ mount
/dev/sda5 on / type ext4 (rw,errors=remount-ro)
proc on /proc type proc (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev)
sysfs on /sys type sysfs (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev)
none on /sys/fs/fuse/connections type fusectl (rw)
none on /sys/kernel/debug type debugfs (rw)
none on /sys/kernel/security type securityfs (rw)
udev on /dev type devtmpfs (rw,mode=0755)
devpts on /dev/pts type devpts (rw,noexec,nosuid,gid=5,mode=0620)
tmpfs on /run type tmpfs (rw,noexec,nosuid,size=10%,mode=0755)
none on /run/lock type tmpfs (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev,size=5242880)
none on /run/shm type tmpfs (rw,nosuid,nodev)
none on /run/user type tmpfs (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev,size=104857600,mode=0755)
/dev/sda6 on /home type ext4 (rw)
binfmt_misc on /proc/sys/fs/binfmt_misc type binfmt_misc (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev)
gvfsd-fuse on /run/user/orbmiser/gvfs type fuse.gvfsd-fuse (rw,nosuid,nodev,user=orbmiser)
And correct both usb do not and are unconnected but nemo shows the Ntfs partitions as it should being internal drive.

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Because the external drive is not connected, it should not show up in either nemo or the the output of mount.
Correct!
Next, connect the usb cable. The system should recognize the external drive being attached, you should see it appear in nemo. Depending upon whether or not it automounts, the mount command output may or may not show the now connected external drives. If executing mount a second time does not show the external drives then, one at a time, in nemo click on a drive to have it mount, verify it is mounted with the mount command, then click on the next drive and verify that also gets mounted.
orbmiser@Winterfell ~ $ mount
/dev/sda6 on /home type ext4 (rw)
binfmt_misc on /proc/sys/fs/binfmt_misc type binfmt_misc (rw,noexec,nosuid,nodev)
gvfsd-fuse on /run/user/orbmiser/gvfs type fuse.gvfsd-fuse (rw,nosuid,nodev,user=orbmiser)
/dev/sdg1 on /media/orbmiser/320GB TOSHIBA type fuseblk (rw,nosuid,nodev,allow_other,default_permissions,blksize=4096)
/dev/sdh1 on /media/orbmiser/697GB Drive type fuseblk (rw,nosuid,nodev,allow_other,default_permissions,blksize=4096)Yes they appeared in Nemo.

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Assuming you've disabled the autologin, log out. Wait a minute or so, log back in and bring up nemo and the terminal window again. When you've gotten back in, I want to know if nemo still sees the drives and if the mount command still shows them being mounted or not, and if you saw the error messages indicating the drives are already mounted.