Ok almost solved and the story so far is :-
I can access my windows 7 PC and read/write from my LMDE 32/64 PC's
Can access my LMDE32/64 PC's from each other and Windows PC's
BUT can not share anything or my LMDE PC's as Nautilus only mentions the word share other then in the 'help" files.
Till now I have read every post and viewed every link and tried as many "possibly relevant" commands as I can find. Of course I must have missed something but I am applying all this knowledge to 2 LMDE64 and 2 LMDE 32 PC"s. In terms of hours it's a full days work now!!!!!
I know that LMDE is experimental and I have a list of issues which I accept need time to get sorted but a basic "simple network" that any numbskull can use should be default !
I'd be willing to bet most users are in a more peer-to-peer setup with samba so all they will do is open up Nautilus, right click a file they own, and select "share this thing" ( I'm paraphrasing a bit ) - Just like they did on WinXP. Mint Main allows that to happen - Mint Debian does not for a number of reasons.
YES
altair4 that is what I am trying to point out here in the first place and had you read what I wrote in the beginning clearly you would have not repeated it 6 or so posts later
Plus
kwisher was just offering an alternative solution and you "bit his head off" so to speak
Like I say I have read many of your postings and your knowledge is astounding and I'm sure everybody,including me are very grateful for your help
However please remember many people who read your posts do not speak English as their first language and may well come from very different cultures, therefore could very easily be offended by your "bed side manner".And if your are one of them then you should know better and reconsider some of your phrasing.
I have no intention to insult you with this post,in fact I would like to thank you the time and effort you spend,the help your provide on this forum and your support in the mint community this but having 11 stripes does mean your can be quite scary to newbs that come in and ask where's "start" button?
I really hope the mint team understand that losing the ease of a basic network set-up to communicate with Windows networks in LMDE will cost them users to standard mint or an other distros.
If you haven't noticed it seems you can't by anything these days that does not connect to a wired or wifi network so please make it a basic/default requirement! Bye the way
kwisher that's the best GUI (for people that read pictures not text ) "how to" I have ever seen online . In my last employ I made mine the same way in WYSIWYG= What You See Is What You Get . Even a 5 year old can use docs like that as it is not required to understand anything !
Maybe we should collaborate to make a new one for LMDE and let
altair4 check it

I still have 1 32 bit PC and a 64 PC I want to update to Gnome 3 / Cinnamon
