In LM14 xfce -
If you right-click the background of the terminal window, you will get a menu.
Click "Show Menubar" to get a Menubar like you see in your first picture - then click Edit > Preferences ...
or you can just click Preferences in the menu that appears to configure your settings:
Then if you want to see the Menubar as default, click Edit > Preferences > Appearance tab > Opening new windows > check "Display menubar in new windows"
Last edited by caribriz
on Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:31 am, edited 1 time in total.
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