
Indeed, to get on topic (if there is one, now), being a noob is not a bad thing. It is (to use one of the most annoying phrases of 2009) what it is. A signification that you have no idea what is really going on, but are making an effort to figure it out (indeed, a good label). Now if every new person were labeled a troll, things might be different.
The term noob and newbie are here to stay in the tech world, in forums and chat boards that involve every subject imaginable; if it offends one that much, the only way to avoid it is to stay off of the internet.