I think that the easiest way would be to setup a remote desktop app like rustdesk and just remotely go to the desktop and do the upgrades.
Aside from that would be to install postfix and configure it to relay emails. Then make a bash script to redirect the output of the apt update command to a file and have it run via cron daily or weekly. Next step would be to make another script to email the contents of the file into the body of the email and send it to you. While this is more involving to setup there are guides to show you how to setup postfix as a relay. This might be above your skill level but its not too hard to accomplish.
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#!/bin/bash
sudo apt update > /home/user/todaysupdate.txt
You can tailor the above to also delete the file before it runs to make sure your not just emailing yourself old info. Then recreate the file for the next day:
But as I said, It involves some learning and the first option might be more suitable for you (?)